January Jollies and Joys

My main new year's resolve is to become a regular blogger, more than just occasionally. I took the first step today by downloading all the photos I have from this busy month in Korea, and also some remarkable shots taken from the plane over the Arctic region. (that's another blog posting topic!)

There have been a lot of social gatherings since I returned to the Land of the Morning Calm this month, including folks from the American, Korean and Philippino culture at Phillipe and Susie Barbieri's lovely apartment. What a feast of delish food and great chatting!

Then there was our monthly SESA meeting, at which Norm was asked to come up and speak spontaneously, which he did with not a moment's hesitation. (Next month the two of us are the main speakers.) This is the Seoul English Study Association. We love the interaction with Koreans, and they love the chance to practice their English conversation skills with us!

In celebration of the upcoming Lunar New Year Day (Sol Nal in Korean)next week, the ladies of our local church branch gathered for a Korean food feast and cultural presentation, and you can see what beautiful dresses they wear for special occasions. It was fun and interesting!

And, although I never got the camera out for the occasion, Norm and I hosted the latest of our monthly couples study group/pot luck dinner gatherings last Sunday night, and had a great discussion with our friends about developing Christlike attributes. This was the very evening (Seoul time) that Pres. Hinckley died, which was appropriate, since he was such an excellent example of those traits!

Passing of our Prophet

For the last several hours, I have been tuned into internet radio stream KSL from Salt Lake City, listening to the many call-in comments and programs honoring our beloved Prophet, Gordon B. Hinckley at his passing Sunday evening, January 27, 2008.

I learned the news in the early afternoon Monday, in Seoul, about 2 hours after his death occurred. Several friends concurrently sent emails or chatted briefly on MSN IM to make sure I got the sad news, and I thank them for thinking of us over here at such a tender time.

A few words on this blog cannot suffice to summarize the gigantic impact of Pres. Hinckley on my life. I can hardly remember the years (over 20 years ago) that he was not a First Presidency member. Before that, as long as I have been an LDS member, he served as an apostle. And long before that, he was busy serving as a well-loved and talented leader and employee of the church.

His influence has been worldwide in so many areas, and the one that has meant the most to me is the remarkable, ambitious temple-building program at the turn of the millenium. Simply amazing. We have attended and visited many of those temples around the world, and I always think appreciatively of President Hinckley's foresight in planning and supporting their construction, which has brought eternal blessings to millions of people on most of the earth's continents.

At the press conference held in March 1995 when Pres. Hinckley began his service as the Prophet, he was asked by a reporter what advice he would give to working mothers. He responded that all of us, in whatever circumstances we find ourselves, just need "to do the best you can."

That is acceptable to the Lord....and it has helped me through many difficult days since that time.

I feel privileged to have lived so many years of my adult life, growing under the inspirational leadership of Pres. Hinckley. I have abundant memories of him to cherish, and look forward to the opportunity to reunite in the coming life. "God be with you [and us]till we meet again...."

Belated Christmas Message from Norm

There is something wonderfully relaxing and satisfying about ice skating.
People seem to truly enjoy themselves - especially during the holidays.

It was Christmas Eve 2007, in Seoul, Korea - a city of 13 million inhabitants.
I found myself alone as a stranger in a mystical land. During this special time,
I joined a huge crowd of over 100,000 Koreans. They were celebrating by strolling
past richly decorated buildings, trees, & bushes that lined the walkways. Street
vendors offered a variety of Asian food and sweets to the revelers. Music was heard
from speakers scattered all over the downtown area in this magical, "night of nights".

At City Hall, I paused for awhile at a large ice skating rink. It was surrounded by
brilliantly lighted screens, decorated with Far Eastern designs. I was warmed by
the glow of smiling faces who greeted each other as they skated on the ice.
Children giggled as they held tightly to their parents and grandparents. Family
members and friends laughed when their children fell down. Young lovers held
hands and gazed into the eyes of their partners. Wives smiled sweetly at their
husbands as together they skated to music. Older couples enjoyed the peaceful
moment. Gray-haired people interlocked their arms and supported each other.

I was pleasantly surprised when a few people greeted me, shook my hand, and
wished me happiness. I learned more about what it means when Asians talk about
"cry for happy." This was especially true that Christmas Eve because I dearly missed
my own sweet companion - as well as our wonderful children. Previously, a Korean
War veteran, with tears of appreciation, expressed sincere gratitude for the sacrifices
of U.S. citizens during that terrible war - as well as what we have done for the past 50
years. Sometimes, I have personal glimpse of the soul of a city with a similar name.

I was able to experience the peace and joy that comes from love. I thought about the
importance of mutual caring, sharing, kindness, & understanding. For a brief moment
in the troubled history of this beautiful nation, among such lovely people, there was
a renewed feeling of hope. Before I left the memorable scene, I looked at the star on
top of a huge and colorful tree. I wished for lasting joy, with peace on earth for my
loved ones, for this great & ancient country, and good will toward all mankind. I then
returned to my apartment in the full moonlight. My warmed heart didn't notice the cold.
May the Lord continue to bless us all during the new year, and forever.
Norm Potter
Seoul, Korea

These shots are: Sutherland and Potter family party; Moonrise over the Wasatch; Temple Square nativity; Potters at Cathedral of the Madeleine choir concert; Sara's aerobic exercise shoveling the latest snowfall! We had 4 in a few days. Beautiful!

The photos are: The Potters with Nathan and Chasta at Gardner Village in SLC; Norm and Sara with Ann and Bud Gammon at the Davis Master Chorale concert; Dan and Angie Miller with Norm and Sara; Norm's sibs Myrna and LaMar, with our family, Van, and Katie; Karen Greenwell and Sara at Joseph Smith Memorial Building in SLC. Just a few of the many activities I was able to squeeze into my December visit in Utah!

December Pix

The photos in the previous post are (top to bottom): Sara and Norm at San Antonio Temple; Emily, Norm, Sara, Rebecca at Conference Center in SLC; Norm, Sara, Vicki & Joe Southerland at Phoenix Park Ski Resort in Korea at Thanksgiving time; Norm and Sara with Israeli students selling Dead Sea beauty products at mall in San Antonio; The handbell concert in SLC.

Here are the kids' "assignments" written in their own words (although they all chose to write in 3rd person). I am still waiting to hear from Norm with his entry.

EMILY was extremely excited to turn 30 years old this year. She graduated with a master's degree from the University of Montana, studying Intercultural Youth and Family Development. She completed a six month internship in India. She worked as a commissioned acrylic-on-canvas artist for the summer. (to see samples of her art, go to: www.passionforartexperiment.blogspot.com) In Montana, she started a small band just long enough to produce and sell a cd of 10 original songs. Her biggest musical thrill was to hear one of her songs selected on a local radio station in Missoula. She is currently rehearsing with her new Peruvian dancing partner for a local salsa dancing competition in the following year. After her adventures in India, Emily moved back to Kaysville and feels most blessed to have Rebecca and Daniel as her roommates. She is using her undergraduate degree, working as a full time Recreation Therapist at the Veterans Affairs Medical Center in Salt Lake City. She delights in her job in every way, although she still can't believe the federal government would hire someone with dreadlocks.

In a few months, REBECCA will celebrate 10 adventurous years with Delta Airlines by going on a family trip to Japan, her favorite country. This past July, she joined half the family in experiencing the wonders of Mongolia, a true highlight for her. In our church, she is currently serving as an Achievement Day leader for the 10 and 11 year old girls, and she is working on the Enrichment committee. Rebecca found a green thumb in gardening tomato plants again this summer, which she calls her babies. She and Emily also learned to be more confident in the kitchen by taking private cooking lessons from Daniel. She is stunning family and friends with her talent of editing of home videos. She has also found a talent in hosting a myriad of social events from time travel parties to picnics to planning a whole month of Christmas festivities. Rebecca has found a special interest in learning about nutrition and homeopathy, and hopes to continue her independent education in this field. She could not have been more excited to welcome Eleanor, who she loves dearly, to the family in May and always looks forward to any time she gets to spend with the newlywed couple.


MICHAEL AND ELEANOR couldn't be happier after 7 months of marriage. They're enjoying naivete in all of its forms, especially being dirt poor. Eleanor finished school, and Michael is ecstatic to have only one more semester before he finishes his degree (film major and Japanese major). He quit his job making videos for BYU and started working for BYU's International Cinema, where he directs shoots of commentators for each film screening. Next year he plans to start a freelance video production business (so if you have any video needs of any kind, be in touch), and make a few short films to submit to festivals. He is developing a feature film script this next year, which he plans to shoot in 2009. It will be a independent production, so, seriously, if you know anyone who is looking for an investment opportunity that they can brag to their friends about, let him know. Eleanor has made a beautiful newlywed home down in Utah County, and will be working on her handmade boutique items, including baby clothes, aprons. The young couple is still pretty enamored-- sometimes obnoxiously so.

DANIEL had a banner year, first due to finally keeping a New Year's resolution to get off the couch and enter his first-ever running races. He and Emily trained during the spring and early summer for the Kaysville July 4th 5K, crossing the finish line together and loving it so much that they began to train for a 5-mile Thanksgiving run where they again triumphantly crossed the finish line together. Meanwhile, unbeknown to Daniel, the pounds began to slip away and he was surprised to discover by just running a few times a week, 15 pounds can just magically disappear. Ah, youth.
He also is racing ever closer to finishing his teaching degree with a minor in ESL. When he's not up on campus, Daniel works in the headquarter branch of the Davis County Library in Farmington, a dream job of sorts to be surrounded by books and quirky librarians and a prime. Thankfully he lead his sisters in a cooking course, so we can always come home to a wonderful meal. He's excited to travel again in coming months, after whetting his appetite with the Mongolian and Korean expedition in July and August this year.

Christmas Greetings 2007

This photo is the embroidery I finished months ago, and finally made into a pillow cover, just before I flew from Korea to San Antonio. It summarizes nicely how I feel about the Christmas season, after all these years. It is a joy to re-connect with our family and friends from past years and current times. Just knowing you are there is comforting. We cherish any opportunities we get to spend time with you, and we enjoy some great memories of terrific people in our lives, scattered among many nations and cultures around the planet. This Christmas season, we feel especially blessed to have time at home in Kaysville, Utah with all four of our own children, and our new daughter -in-law Eleanor. I am giving each of the family an "assignment" to summarize their 2007 lives, thoughts, or feelings here to share with you. I will lead the way!

For me, 2007 was a year filled with a variety of emotions and activities. There were some highs and a few lows, but by the time the year ends next week, I do believe the highs will win. I spent the first half of the year in a major weight-loss and fitness effort, which paid off in many ways. I treadmill most days of the week at the apartment building's fitness center, while watching TV on Korean or English language stations, and have learned a lot of things on Discovery, CNN, Arirang, AFN, and a movie channel. Norm joins me sometimes, and I also walk around the Yongsan post as needed, since we only are allowed to have one car.

Living in Korea has been good for my nutritional health, too. We have more healthy choices in foods available in the Korean culture, and we also have access to the best commissary in the overseas military communities. I have learned more about all kinds of good things to eat for middle age thriving, so combining the food and exercise into a daily lifestyle has been paying off in a rewarding way for me!

My work has evolved into a self-directed teaching career where I pick and choose my commitments to students, and have preserved a reasonable daytime schedule of early morning phone English students, some days of subbing at Seoul Foreign School (including the British School, and the elementary, middle, and high schools there), as well as the Seoul American Middle School on Yongsan Army Garrison. In addition, I have a steady group of wonderful Korean students of various ages who come to our apartment for English tutoring. I could be a lot busier with them if I was willing to work into the night time, as all of them do, but I cut it off by dinner time, so I can have a life.

In our branch at church, I continue teaching the Gospel Doctrine Sunday School class to adults, in which we get to delve into and discuss the scriptures each week. I am also teaching the Relief Society lesson once a month. I love to teach, as you can probably guess, and I love to help others get enthused about whatever the subject is, so I am content to be a teacher in so many settings, meeting with such a variety of good people of all ages in the English and Korean communities.

For my "favorite things" pastimes, I have done a lot more reading and sewing in the past several months. Sewing is a fun adventure in Seoul, with the fabric market so close and so full of any kind of fabric you can imagine, at great low prices! Reading takes on a new focus with my recent involvement in a book club, so I finally am reading some of the books I have heard of for years but never made a point of reading before. I also find real joy in cooking, and especially in teaching one of my Korean students (age 9) how to bake and cook in the American style.

Norm and I continue to serve in the Seoul LDS Temple regularly as ordinance workers, and we participate in other community activities such as the Good Neighbor Program and the SESA organization (Seoul English Study Association). And of course, we travel whenever we can get a few days off. Our trips have gravitated to more Korean discovery tours, and fewer international travels, since we are affected by the airlines' trend to fewer and fuller flights (thus, fewer stand-by seats for us!) But we never get tired of seeing new things in Korea. There's a lot to learn and experience here! We get around nicely on subways, buses, and trains, which are all excellent in Korea.

If you read backwards in the blog, you will see that we managed three separate trips to the US in 2007, and I am still here in Utah as I write this. It has helped me a lot to stay so connected with our home base and neighborhood in Kaysville, while maintaining our home in Korea. I sometimes forget which is my real home. I don't think I know anymore, which one it is, actually. I feel totally at home in both countries now. If I didn't, I don't think Norm would have extended our stay in Korea for another two years!

At Thanksgiving, I wrote down all the blessings I could think of at the time, and my list filled an entire journal page. I often marvel at how well my life is going, in the midst of so many troubles and woes in the world around me. I feel immersed in a midlife-mellowing, which is good. It sometimes is a bumpy hormonal ride, but over time, I have learned some wisdom to smooth my own path, and I find rewards of living a Gospel-centered life, every day that I awake and continue to move and breath. Above most anything else, I am grateful to witness the fulfillment of a special promise to me in 1971, that I would know the joy of "rearing my children in righteousness." That takes in a lot, and it is real. Excellent memories, and great adventures to anticipate in months and years ahead! It's all about enjoying the journey, isn't it?

Holiday Time

Tempus Fugit! I keep thinking of updating this blog a lot more regularly, but something, like life, always delays me from my intention. Today, however, I am spending some much-appreciated time in a hotel business center at a computer with no deadline or other commitment. I am just waiting for Norm to be done with his first day of class at this San Antonio conference.

Yes! We have returned to Texas for the second time in a few months, and, as before, are staying in the Double Tree hotel, enjoying gorgeous weather and blue skies...while most of the nation is enduring a blizzard, I hear.

Since my last blog posting in October, I have stayed busy with plenty of work at home and at a couple schools in Seoul. At Thanksgiving time, Norm and I went with our good friends, Joe and Vicki, to enjoy the snowy scenes and sites in northeastern S. Korea. We stayed at a large and popular Korean ski resort in a rental condo suite for a few days, and had a great time getting away from the city stress and traffic.

One place we discovered is called Herb Nara...which means Herb Farm. It is the first (and only?) in Korea, and may be a well-kept secret, at least from the Americans living there. Even in the cold of winter, it is a fun place to roam around, with all sorts of fun displays and gardens on display where many kinds of useful and aromatic herbs are grown and sold. We ate our Thanksgiving Dinner there, too, at a great Korean restaurant which treated us like VIP's...because we were the only customers that day...a weekday in winter.

This will be a work-in-progress since I am in and out of the hotel, and I can't download any photos, so stay tuned....

Catch up time!

The photos: Mr. Sohn, our wonderful host for a fancy Korean feast, SK Kang, me, Ann, and Katie; Me on a September walk with Emily in Kaysville foothills; our family and friends picnic at Liberty Park, SLC, in September; family and Pate (Rebecca's AZ friend since age 10) on our back deck patio in Kaysville --Do we see a pattern here?--food-based photos!

Today is Columbus Day, October 8, 2007, a US holiday here in the American military community, while life goes on as usual outside our apartment windows. It's a time to catch up on a lot of undone things around the home, after weeks of activity ---a 10 day trip to the USA in September, and a week--long visit from fellow phone English teachers,Katie and Ann in Seoul. They both live in the US and had come last year also, but this year I had more time to spend with them, roaming around Korean sites, feasting with various people in traditional Korean restaurants, and catching up on our girl talk.

This Thursday is the 35th anniversary of our wedding. It seems like another lifetime when Norm and I went to the Salt Lake Temple to be eternally wed....so we will celebrate by a visit to the Seoul Temple, and maybe a Chinese dinner out. Then we will get to the Oktoberfest the next night to dine on Deutsch food with oompa music and fun times with our friends here.

The trip to San Antonio and Utah in September was to accompany Norm in his course (TDY) on military members' post-traumatic stress disorder, and then to just spend time with our children in Kaysville and Spanish Fork. We even had a "Happy Thanksmas" dinner gathering at Michael and Eleanor's home, just in case we are not together for one or both of the November/December holidays. We had a jolly gathering and scrumptious feast!

Life in Korea settles back to routine this week, for the next several weeks before we again head to San Antonio and Utah in early December. (More on that subject in a later posting.) Normal schedule around Seoul for me now includes some substitute teaching at Seoul Foreign School and at the American middle school, as well as my phone English teaching every weekday morning, and my private face-to-face ESL students in my apartment. I just added one more of those to my list today: the young assistant manager of the apartment complex. That came about because I had previously offered to help him with the English translations of his many informational signs for the tenants. (Out of the 310 apartments in our complex, 100 of them are filled with English speaking tenants that he has to speak with from time to time.) I have a great variety of students and I like the friendships that we are forming. Sundays find me teaching about the New Testament to a great group of adult students at church.

Norm is still waiting to hear if he is being extended in Korea or not. A few things depend on that news, but we are rather confident it will happen soon. We also continue to apply for positions in Europe; however, it seems to be an exercise in futility. Time will tell.

Mongolia continued--part 2

We met up with some very friendly people around the territory, and found that many Mongolians can speak a [tiny] bit of English. The LDS missionaries that come here are actually assigned as English teachers on a part-time basis, so they stay busy with teaching free classes to anyone interested. We saw some of the young elders out on the streets a few times during the week, and we also made our way to the main chapel building, which also houses the mission headquarters. We learned that there are currently between 7000 and 8000 Mongolian Mormons.

We knew that our Kaysville neighbor, Todd Altom, was winding up his 2-year mission this summer in Mongolia, and we had a care package from his devoted mother, our friend Debbie Altom. She had sent (via Rebecca's suitcase from Utah) a bag of peanut butter jars and pb-flavored goodies to him, and as soon as we gave it to him, his missionary friends quickly flocked around and became his instant best friends. They were a friendly and fun group, and we spent some time chatting after the church meeting.

That building is one of the only "true" air conditioned places in the country, and we enjoyed the friendly feeling from the natives there. Two young ladies sitting behind us just started right up translating the speakers' words for us, without us even asking for their help. One missionary helped us get taxi's back to our home base. It was getting hotter by the day, finally becoming 100 degrees F, so we started taking midday siestas.

Correction of a typo in my first Mongolia posting: It was the Chinggis Khan Cavalry, not the Calvary! I do know the difference. :-)

One of the common sights on the city streets is to see children and some adults begging for money. They meekly hold out their hands or show their deformed or amputated body parts, and just repeat "Money, money" over and over again. Generally they are pretty harmless, but on one occasion we had to ask the restaurant staff to get a young man away from our table. He was standing right by us at lunch, just staring, and would not leave without a struggle with the waitress (who had frequently sent him away, obviously.)

Another time, we walked past a man in a wheelchair who was apparently frustrated that no one was giving him money, and he started throwing rocks at us when we walked by him. We kept our cool, however. But, when we did start giving our small bills to the children, they seemed 100% ungrateful for the donation anyway. I learned at that point that there is no word for "thank you" in Mongolian. That is hard to believe, isn't it!?

Another of our day trips was to an old Buddhist monastery out in the forested wilderness area south of the city...or what is left of it. It was virtually destroyed by the Communists in the 1920's. Apparently there are two sides to every story, however. Rebecca told us that the Buddhist priests were not without their human frailties, and had been taking advantage of the people in various ways. Some things never change, eh?

Everywhere we went, on a bus, or in the van with our driver, we got bounced around on the roads, paved or gravel. With the wide variance in temperature between winter and summer, there is virtually no way to make or keep the roads smooth for any length of time. And, there is no superhighway anywhere in the country. We saw the best roads around; the visitors who go into the far distant wilds of the Gobi desert see almost nothing that could be called a road. I was sitting in the front seat of the van, looking at the rocky path up to the Buddhist temple in the national park one day, and could not believe my eyes. That driver was fearless. I just had to laugh...and tighten my seat belt. (The others in the group didn't have the luxury of seat belts in the back.)

Our driver was Bulga, a 22 year old single young man who comes from a family of nomad sheep and goat herders about 20 km out of the city. He drives tourists (in the guest house owner's van or SUV) on day trips, and also accompanies some adventurous folks on 4-day journeys into the Gobi and beyond. The guest house staff provides a variety of these tours, some for a few weeks of experiences. We met up with people staying at the guest house dorm (a very non-private existence that we were very grateful to have skipped, in favor of our apartment!) from several different countries in Europe, Korea, and the US. They are certainly a friendly lot, akin to a hippy community from the 60's. We chatted with backpackers, and a few volunteers from Peace Corps (English teachers) and the British counterpart to the Peace Corps.

If there is to be a part 3 to this narrative, it will be after a good night's sleep. Adios!

Meandering through Mongolia

Well, we didn't wander too far from the capital city, but we did get a fantastic introduction to the country of Mongolia. This was one of my long-awaited trips while living in Asia, and we finally made the adventure happen this month. We spent a week in a guest house apartment in the center of UlaanBaatar. Accompanying me on this journey were Norm, Rebecca, Daniel, and our family friend D'Arcy. The kids had arrived on July 18, and we took off on Mongolian Airlines (MIAT) the next morning. The flight was only about 3 hours, and I was relieved to see that we were on a Boeing 737 plane, American made! This is one trip for which we concluded we had to buy reserved seats, because the KAL flights for stand-by were all packed with other tourists and businessmen. Our flight was full too. Sometimes it pays to pay a little more for a lower stress level. Stand by flying is wonderful most of the time, but not to Mongolia in July!

I knew that Koreans were making their presence known in Mongolia, but I was amazed to see such an obvious, pervasive presence everywhere we looked--Seoul Street downtown, Korean restaurants everywhere, Korean cyberstores, Seoul Hotel, and even a Seoul Tennis Club. You may know that Mongols are responsible for the Korean race, so I went all week long not knowing by facial appearance if I was watching Koreans or Mongolians. However, their language and dress identifies them pretty well. Mongolian language is based on the Cyrillic alphabet. So, it was a strange mixture of Russia (Soviet) and Korea.

As I read the signs like "PECTOPAH" ["restaurant"] and remembered my rudimentary intro to Russian language during our past visits in Russian cities, I discovered that the Russians have left their mark there just as they did in the Communist years in Ruskieland. But Mongolians have taken their former Soviet government buildings, which abound, and turned them into lots of other things, such as snooker or pool parlors. We got a kick out of seeing a huge base relief Lenin head staring down from the wall inside the foyer of one such edifice, which is now a local billiard parlor, right next to a newly built movie theater building (one of only two theaters in the whole city of 1 million residents.)

We spent our week alternating between roaming around the city museums and performances, and venturing out on daytrips into the countryside. Highlights in the rural area were the visit to Terelj National Park (where we ate lunch with a nomad family in their ger home and rode horses for a while) and the Chinggis Khan Calvary March supershow out on the steppe, featuring 500 costumed characters and our main man, complete with music, blowing dust, and a lot of video and still pictures from the grandstands. That event started in summer 2006 as a big tribute to the 800th anniversary of the Mongolian nation, when Chinggis Khan united the many nomad tribes of Asia to form his mighty empire. He is truly the Hero of Mongolia!

One pleasant discovery is the restaurant [pectopah!] scene in the city. We were all sort of concerned about what we would do for a week if we had to eat a mutton-based simple nomad diet for the whole week. On our first night there, we did a little research in the neighborhood and found lots of modern, clean, ethnic restaurants that take VISA, contrary to what we had been told. So, one of our daily highlights became deciding where to eat each day, alternating among Mongolian and Italian, Russian, American, and Chinese cuisine. And the best part is the low price to dine in style there. On our last night we splurged at the only Mongolian BBQ restaurant in town. I am still trying to figure out how Americans connected Mongolia with this type of Asian grill menu, because we saw nothing like it anywhere authentic, anywhere we went, except B-D's on Seoul Street, an obvious tourist trap and ex-pat hangout.

I see that I have focused on Daniel the most in our 5 alloted photos for this posting, so I will add some more with the next section, and get back to it asap. We are off to the 63 Building in Seoul this evening with Rebecca, who leaves us tomorrow (July 31) to return to Utah after a great 2 week stay in Asia!.

Wedding Wrap-up!

The photos are: The newlyweds in the oak forest near Rossells' home, the Potters and Rossells with the bride and groom in La Verne, Norm and the kids cleaning up the yard for the Kaysville open house, and Sara's long hair being cut for donation to Locks of Love.

The past few weeks have been magical and marvelous! Michael and Eleanor were wed in the Los Angeles LDS Temple on Saturday, May 19, 2007. All our immediate family was able to gather from India, Korea, England-- where Daniel had been touring in May-- and Utah. Eleanor Rossell comes from a very large family, and they are wonderful people. We met many of them at Club Largo in LA, at a bluegrass concert and dinner hosted by Eleanor's parents, Craig and Theresa, on Thursday evening (May 17), and then the next night, Norm and I hosted a big family dinner at Grandad Turner's back yard and patio. Daniel and his sisters offered to make homemade ravioli (dripping in butter herb sauce!), and we added to the meal with COSTCO goods. It was all very delicious, and the family was in rare form.

Everyone enjoyed getting better acquainted. We had an impromptu testimonial session after dinner and before dessert, and most of the immediate family members on both sides stood up and spoke of memories and feelings about the newlyweds. It was touching, and entertaining too. We wiped away a few tears as we remembered Mom (Gram) who would have loved to be there---and probably was, now that I think about it!

Saturday was busy and beautiful. Eleanor's grandfather is an authorized temple "sealer" so he was able to marry the couple in a "sealing room" where about 65 people gathered, and half of them were standing behind the seated people, all around the perimeter of the room. Grandpa Norm Rossell spoke to Michael and Eleanor about the words of the ceremony, and how to apply the wisdom therein to their own lives to build a happy eternal marriage. It was very personal of course, considering he has known and loved the bride all her life!

That evening we all drove over to La Verne, near Claremont, for the big reception in the Rossells' home and back yard. They had worked very hard in recent weeks to decorate, repaint, and re-landscape, and it was very lovely. The evening was full of a couple hundred people, lots of desserts and fresh fruit, a little dancing, photos, and plenty of chatter. Good times for all!

The Utah event was on Saturday, May 26 at our Kaysville back yard. We turned it into a garden setting the best we could, with white lights, and we got some outdoor rugs to use on the deck and patio, and added some flowers and greens wherever we could. Neighbor friends added their own items to help with tables, chairs, decor, etc. and it was a big success with lots of good food, friends, family, and photos. We all worked reeeealllly hard for a few intense days, and deserved a break after it was all over Saturday night. So a few of the family were able to go to Park City for a few days relaxation at a condo, and then we visited the newlyweds at their first home in Spanish Fork on last Saturday, and made sushi for dinner.

Norm has returned to work in Korea, and I am on my way back home to Seoul next week. This month in USA has been a welcomed rest from the busy-ness of life in Korea, but we have some good times planned for the next several weeks, so it will be great to get back to a settled routine soon. Stand-by flying has come through again, with a few hiccups in our plans, but we cannot complain, considering that all 5 of us (everyone except Michael) used Delta flights to arrive in LA and/or Utah for wedding celebrations. Thank you, Rebecca!

PS: I have already told the three unmarried kids that I would really appreciate doing future weddings in just one city, not two!

In like a lion...

How do I turn the photos around the right direction, Emily? I am such a novice at this stuff!
This one is a shot of SK Kang in his little office down in the National Assembly district. He is my employer for the SK English Academy work that I do, teaching phone English to several Korean adults each morning.
A ROK Marine spoke to us at this memorial shrine area overlooking the waters that divide South Korea from North Korea. People with relatives in the North come here once or twice a year to honor their loved ones that they cannot see in person.


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Well, it's snowing for the 3rd day in a row...in March. It's not uncommon, but still a surprise, after the warmer spring-like weather we started having recently in Korea. But after seeing the big snowstorms some people are getting in the USA, we feel pretty lucky to be here in the temperate zone.

Since my last posting, Norm and I went on another cultural day trip (Feb 24) with the Korean children and mothers, and other Americans, as part of the Good Neighbor Program here in the Yongsan post area. We have really enjoyed ourselves on these local adventures to places within an hour or two of our home. We go on public transportation sometimes, but the last couple trips have been on hired tour buses. The children are so cute, and fun to watch. They are a bit shy about practicing their English, with a few notable exceptions.

This last trip was to Kangwha Island, which is very historic in Korean culture, since the middle ages. The first "Korean War" against invaders from the north was fought there. Today it is best known for its proximity to North Korea (we went to another observation tower on a hill overlooking the water boundary, and some North Korean buildings beyond), and the ginseng market. Norm and I bought some ginseng honey to make warm drinks with it on cold mornings. We also visited a Buddhist temple that still had lots of evidence of their recent Lunar New Year celebration.

I finally visited the office of my employer for the phone English work I do here. We thought I would be getting a little job teaching English to the class of congressmen at the National Assembly, but something got [literally] lost in the translation! Apparently some other academy or institution got the contract for the new year, starting March 1st. It's OK with me, though. I really love working at home. Lately I have said goodbye to a few students (going to start graduate school in England) and hello to a few new ones. Three ladies were "passed off to me" by a friend who is soon moving to Heidelberg for his wife's job transfer there.

Speaking of job transfers, we are still trying to move, applying for whatever comes up that Norm feels qualified for and interested in pursuing. But we realize it may be the impossible dream so we are content to stay here until whatever time we would leave. There is still plenty to do in this region.

The best news lately is the upcoming flight route addition for Delta Airlines, starting June 4th. It will be non-stop from Atlanta to Seoul, so we will be able to come and go for free, space available [and schedule available too] as long as we can get to ATL each time. This opens up a whole new realm of travel possibilities for us and whomever Rebecca's buddy passes go to!

I have been teaching my little Primary class of 6 and 7 year olds for almost a month now. They are fun, and rather bright, too! We did a class presentation on very short notice for the younger children recently, where they each did a flannelboard story of a miracle of Jesus. It was darling, and I think everyone in the room had some tender feelings. There were some tears. We also had the token grandfather in our branch come visit us, dressed up as King Benjamin, giving some wise counsel to the children. [Girls, do you remember Mosiah 4:14 from your very young childhood?!

Because of technology I am able to stay in touch with all our children by phone for free, and I do appreciate that benefit of the Internet. We are planning out the big events of the year, and it should be a busy time for all.